Crossdressing men have stated

• The feeling of silky, sexy lingerie against my skin is so tactile, and I cannot ever get enough of that feeling. Also, when dressed for someone who is going to treat you like the lady you feel you are, the sexual turn on is so powerful the ensuing sex is phenomenal!!

• It gives me a feeling that I can be myself as a woman, not a man. I enjoy the difference the clothing makes and the makeup no matter how badly I apply it. I feel content inside & would like to spend the rest of my life enema.

• I love clothes; I love the way I suddenly think sexy when I'm wearing them especially stockings and heels and anything that enhances my breasts.

• I feel tremendously calm and relaxed when dressed. It's almost as though I become a different person with a whole different outlook on life. Crossdressing allows me to feel delicate, meek and sensitive.

• I enjoy crossdressing as I feel feminine and sensual, and the feel of the clothes on my skin is incredibly erotic, I have a fem side I would like to explore.

• I love the feel of soft satin against my skin. When I cross-dress, it brings out my inner female within me.

• It gives me the freedom to be who I want to be when I'm not them. I love the feel of the clothes and the way heels make my legs look fab. But most of all it completes me.

• I like the feel of women's clothes around me and the contact with silky fabrics. I feel relaxed when dressed.

• The feminine lingerie, baby dolls, dresses, and makeup feel so beautiful and puts me so at ease.

How does one start? As stated before you may have a childhood experience and now you want to continue, or you are looking to try something new. Either way, maybe underdressing will meet your needs.

Underdressing has serval meanings, but for this article, it is a word used to describe a practice that some cross-dresser uses to stay in touch with their feminine side. Underdressing usually pertains to a man who will wear the undergarments of a woman, under the drab outer garments of his male clothing. Surprising, there is little posted on the internet under the search of underdressing but appears to be widely practiced by men all over the world. The practice could be as simple as a man putting on a pair of silk panties made for a woman, or he may be more adventurist by underdressing with a matching satin bra and panty.

https://jessxdress.wordpress.com/2014/04/05/panty-underdressing-tips/ provides comments on fit, fabric, color, frills and lace, style and choice.

Others might find deep emotional satisfaction in cross-dressing. Some people may cross-dress only occasionally, while others may do it on a regular basis—for instance, wearing women's lingerie under a men's business suit to work every day.

On cold days a man may even put on pantyhose to feel the pleasure of his legs being enclosed by nylon.

Underdressing includes painting your toenails, wearing woman shoes, wearing pantyhose, or stockings, garter belt, panties, bra, chemise, corset,

whorton59 a crossdresser of many years, he stated on www.susans.org forum, then he, “By the 9th grade I was hooked. I can recall wearing the panties under my jeans to night school one night. That was the first time I had worn anything outside of a home. The feelings of trepidation, abject fear and excitement were indescribable”.

whorton59 continues, “Almost exclusively "underdressing." That is, I wear a bra with silicone breast forms, panties, and keds or some other not glaringly obviously woman's shoe. Keds are good, black Mary janes are good.”

Underdressing is becoming popular with men young and old, with their girlfriend and wives. Major woman clothing manufactures (mostly for bra and panties) has recognized that 5% of these products are being purchased and worn by men. These manufactures are not making and marketing a line of bras and panties made for men. A search of flickr.com will deliver to your computer screen a plethora of pictures (caution these photos can be X-rated) of me in panties.

https://xdress.com/ This website is for him who wants to wear her things. They use male models.

https://shop.hommemystere.com/categories/Panties/

http://www.sonic.net/~biltrlok/index.php?p=ppinterview Bill Turlock’s Lingerie Lover/ Panty Art website. This site has movies for sale, stories, pictures, and a

http://www.sonic.net/~biltrlok/index.php?p=stories

Many men had reported they started to wear woman panties when they were young usually associated with their discovering masturbation. Let's face it a man’s climax can be a very pleasurable activity.

There may be many factors to consider when a man underdresses.

https://malefemme.blogspot.com/2014/10/underdressing.html excellent articles on the subject of underdressing.

Sarah Charles https://www.susans.org/forums posted this about how it feels to underdress, “It's amazing that as the thrill becomes less the layers of experience add depth and meaning to the experience. There is no longer a need to have the adrenaline or the climax to make crossdressing satisfying. It's enough to have it part of your personality, understanding the challenge of fashion and how difficult it can be to transform the male body and face into something semi or even totally feminine.”

Underdressing

OK, gender-bending is not for you, you are not going out in public dressed as a woman and with your beard. And female masking is too expensive. What else can I do? For a lot of cross-dressers, it not all about looking like a woman but feeling like a woman. The pleasure is feeling something that has been reserved for the other sex that is exciting. Male clothing is called “drab,” And not all men want to feel like a woman, they want fashion freedom and choice to wear what they want and have options. Show off their fresh sense of style and what makes them who they are. Even woman get purses in beautiful forms, yes, we have wallets, but they only can do so much with them. Men's clothes are dark colors; the funny thing is we are nothing like the male peacock bird at least they know what brightly fun colors are. Men's clothes are basically, T-shirt, shorts jeans, pants suit, polo, kilt but not typical to wear, man-made fashion kilt style but again not common, long sleeve, button shirt, overalls but not common unless you do farm work, and yet all these haven't changed from being like each other just with either a different pattern or picture on it. Not changing the style, a shirt still being a shirt no matter what color or pic is on it vs. a suit still being a suit made of whatever material. (bomberman6 a 32 old male)

From Quora, Julia Reece, stated in reply to why do men wear woman’s clothes?

Men wear women’s clothing for many reasons, and here are some of the most common ones:

#1 - Many men adore women and want to feel as close to them as possible. This is one of the most common reasons why men wear women’s clothing - dressing in the same clothing that women wear gives many men the feeling that they are literally inside a woman’s body.

#2 - Most men have been deprived of wearing pretty colors and feminine styles all their lives. So, when a chance encounter occurs in which a man has his first opportunity to feel what it’s like to wear soft fabrics and pretty colors, something may be triggered deep down inside of him that feels wonderful. It’s almost liked a hidden part of his psyche wakes up for the first time in his life when he recognizes his feminine side.

#3 - Women’s clothing is sexy, while men’s clothing is… not so much. When a man spends his entire life wearing the standard uniform that men are expected to wear, and then one day he tries on a pair of women’s underwear, a lightbulb goes off in his head. “Wow” would be one word to describe it. And once the cross-dressing ‘bug’ has bitten him, there’s rarely thought of going back to wearing all drab again.

#4 - Something sexual may have happened the first time a man wore women’s clothing. Slipping on a pair of nylon stockings or pantyhose may have been sexually arousing - and he may have pleasured himself to the point of climax. That’s a positive “reward” for cross-dressing, and often the beginning of a lifelong habit.

#5 - Wearing women’s clothing can be very relaxing for a man. A lot of men release the day’s stress while they’re dressed in women’s garments.

Female Masking

If you want to look like a woman from head to toe and to keep your beard, there is something you should consider. Female masking.

Female masking A subculture is thriving online. The men wear latex or silicone masks and torsos to make themselves look like women. The result is a mostly immobile face, giving the impression of a doll or mannequin. Unlike transgenders, ‘rubber dollars, or maskers’ don't feel born in the wrong body. Dressing up as a member of the opposite sex is the way to have fun or explore sexuality. Many who practice female masking are married, heterosexual men.

Male enthusiasts don elaborate latex or silicone masks and bodysuits complete with breasts to become glamorous female alter-egos. One man stated, “I get enjoyment out of it, I get a sense of escapism out of it,’ he reveals. ‘I'm just out to have fun. It's like the extension of another persona within me that wants to go out and have fun”. Another masker boasted, “It's about fun. A lot of men have fun by pretending to be women. Not all of them even want to be hot.” Reasons why some men have done a female anatomically correct rubber body suit due to a men’s low self-esteem or for others it is a form of self-expression. Other rubber dollars comments are, “It is a form of escapism and enjoyment. It is kind of like an extension of another persona within them that wants to go out and have fun.”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uObi_lSMaFA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rP6t9hK5FPU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_iEZLrs428 how to ware and do your makeup when using a face mask

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XClnPuWfCik video is in Chinese with English subtitles

Female masking can be very expensive, with a mask costing $300, mask and breasts $600 and an entirely female body suit costing $1000. Female masking will allow you to keep your beard and still dress. You can be young or old, and you will appear the same.

Men that dress in woman underwear

There are many reasons why a man might choose to cross-dress.

• Mild personality disorder slightly deprived sensual and tactile relationship with the mother especially.
• Psychological reason as simply dress for the pure sensual pleasure of it.
• For a bisexual male, crossdressing may be an aspect of the man wishing to literally adopt the feminine role in a bisexual relationship.
• Others cross-dress as a form of play, and often do so with the encouragement and consent of their wives/partners.
• A great majority of crossdressers practice in what is called 'the closet' which is often a reflection of the refusal of a female partner to accept what she might perceive as non-masculine behavior.

One of the gender behaviors that children may do is Cross-dressing. Playing dress up is a healthy way for young children to learn about gender roles of for men and woman. Sometime a child will want to dress in the clothes of the other sex because the child believe that their parents prefer children of the other sex. Some studies reports another reason why a child might cross-dress they do not have people of the same sex as role models.

A review of many cross-dresser stories they got started by an older sister playing dress up with them being dressed in girly things. Sometimes a boy does something naughty relating to the girls, and his punishment is to be dress as a girl. Maybe a child starts cross-dressing about their curiosity about being around girls and woman that he tries to associate in clothing like them. For whatever the reason the pre-teen will continue into puberty with has cross-dressing, good or bad experience. Some boys will grow out of cross-dressing, usually when they discover real girls.

Frottage

For the teenage boy, he experiences nocturnal dreams and the feeling of his first climax. It does not take long for him to learn how to masturbate. For some boys, masturbation becomes a fixation, something they do three, four or more times a day. Some boys will discover that if they use something soft, silky or satin will make the sensation of masturbation for pleasurable. This finds this material in the laundry or hanging on a close line or tucked away in woman’s drawers where they should not be looking. At this point, the panties become frottage and the boy the frotteur.

The frotteur, a figure that populates serological literature about sexual deviance, initially was characterized as a usually male paraphiliac (a person that exclusively relies on one atypical or extreme activity for sexual arousal and gratification) who enjoys rubbing covered or bared genitals against strangers in public places. Much of the literature, including the first appearance of the term frotteurism in the German sexologist Richard von Krafft-Ebing's Psychopathic Sexualis (1886), places the frotteur in crowded public places where he furtively attempts to rub himself against unknowing females. In using of panties as frottage, the young masturbator substitutes female panties for the unknowing women.

You are reading this article because you have dressed before and you are interested in continuing, or you have never cross-dressed before but some reason you have a desire to try something new. At this point, there are several directions you can take. What path you choose will depend on your body hair, yes, your body hair.

Everyone knows that men that cross-dress must be smooth all over but what happens if you have a beard and do not want to shave.

Gender Bending

Some men are gender bender. A gender bender (LGBT slang: one who genderfucks) is a person who disrupts, or "bends," expected gender roles. Gender-bending is sometimes a form of social activism undertaken to destroy rigid gender roles and defy sex-role stereotypes, notably in cases where the gender-nonconforming person finds these roles oppressive. It can be a reaction to, and protest of, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny or misandry. Some gender benders identify with the sex assigned them at birth but challenge the societal norms that assign expectations of, gendered behavior to that sex. This rebellion can involve androgynous dress, adornment, behavior, and atypical gender roles. Gender benders may self-identify as trans or genderqueer. However, many trans people do not consider themselves "gender benders."

Cross-dressing would be a form of gender-bending because the purpose is to "fuck with gender" roles and presentation. If you have a full beard or like to stay unshaven, you can still cross-dress.

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Panties for Men, why not?

Where to begin?

Society has prescribed what clothing a man should wear and what a woman should ware. A man dresses in cotton tidy whites, boxers or brief then covered by drab pants, and drab shirts. A woman dresses in silk, satin, nylon, lycra in colors that can brighten your day, style from G-string to full panty, bra of so many shape and colors. Her body is covered in so many types of skirts, blouses and dresses that allow a woman to fully express her feminism and sexuality.

Woman as a group dress sexy to show fecundity, or basically her overall fertility. Colors and patterns can draw attention to a woman’s body and to compete with other woman for the attention of others. Woman dress sometimes to show of their cleavage or a short skirt to show off their hips and make their legs look longer. The color of woman’s clothing may have a lot to do with fashion trends but color allow a woman to stand out in a room of other woman, saying to the males present, hear I am. Woman wear soft, touchable fabrics could be their way of advertising they feel soft, gentle, very feminine and submissive, seeking an aggressor.

So why should men not wear what woman wear? Society says for a man to dress as a woman is a sin (Deuteronomy 22.5) or it is a disorder (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, DSM-5 Transvestic Disorder 302.3) or wives of cross-dressers have commented, as disgusting, frightening, or ridiculous. There are enough reasons why most men never steps into woman’s panties but a few men who dare has describe the experience and pleasure as:

• I am putting on panties, and no one will know

• The feeling of the material rubs me exciting me all day

• I have so many panties to choose from, color, material style

• It felt heavenly. The sense of nylon against my legs was a feeling unlike any other I’ve experienced either before or since.

• The fact that a woman put those nylon stockings on me made the experience not only sensual but also life-changing in that it made me realize that the first time I wore lingerie would not be the last time.

• My first-time wearing lingerie was so nerve-wracking and exhilarating.

• I didn’t want to go through life without having at least tried it. Well, I did, and I was hooked for life! Lingerie feels so soft, silky, and smooth, and it looks good on me too (I am a crossdresser).

• Slipping into panties, then pulling the pantyhose up my legs for the first time was an indescribable feeling. To this day I feel the same feeling every time I put them on.

Many men who ware woman’s panties report that it is sexually stimulating. Men will get off on putting on: clean panties, used panties, stolen panties, purchased panties, different styles, different color, different materials, vintage panties, panties with lace or ruffles, children panties, or grandma panties just to name a few.

Most of the men that wear panties are heterosexual men with no desire of meeting other woman or men. Men that ware woman’s undergarments are not homosexual. Most homosexuals want to look like men not woman and do not cross-dress (maybe 5% and 10% of all cross-dresser might be called homosexuals, which is the same percentage for normal men.) https://www.crossdreamers.com/2010/11/vernon-coleman-study-of-crossdressers.html .

Men wear woman panties because they are cross-dressers, they derive sexual pleasure by the dressing activity or the desire to look like a woman. Other reasons why men wear woman panties they have a fetish or because they are a woman trapped in a man’s body. There are hundreds of reasons why men cross-dress but it is possible that some men just like the feeling of the material in a non-sexual way. Maybe some men likes they way they look in panties to draw attend of others (male or female). Maybe some men likes the different styles of panties because it gives them the ability to choose something different or they like panties because of the comfort. Yes, it is possible that some men will ware woman panties and are not categized as cross-dressers.

Marketing studies has reported an increasing number of men discover the joys, pleasure, comfort and practicality of slipping on woman panties.

For men, they have two choices; to buy panties that have been designed for woman or to buy panties designed for men. Yes, if you are a man looking for a change: change in style, texture, color, or comfort in the selection of underwear, you now have panties and bras designed to fit men.

Men, why not enjoy the feeling of lycra, silk, satin, nylon or other material that has been in the past reserved for the female underwear? Why not enjoy how you look in a jock strap, G-string, boxers, bikinis, Moonshines, thongs or harness made of soft and colorful material? Do you love lace or leave it?

Major clothing manufactures had discovered there is a market for men’s who might prefer something different than tidy white boxer or brief. Some men want the feel of woman undergarments but ones that are made for men. They want something to ware that has color, patterns and textures as possibilities. This made for men panties or manpanties have a full cut in the gusset for his manhood allowing a better fit then woman’s panties. Manpanties are the way to go because a man wearing something made for a man and no one can call him a cross-dresser or a Transvestite.

https://www.erogenos.com/mens-underwear this link has a complete line of men’s underwear, this site uses men to model their products.

How to select the right size woman panties for a man or manpanties for a man?

https://oureverydaylife.com/how-to-convert-mens-clothing-sizes-to-womens-12195623.html this site used the rule of 21 to determine a man’s dress size.

https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/cross-dresser-sizes-what-dress-size-are-you-really/ another good reference

A man can wear pantyhose to keep his legs warm on a cold night and can be called normal but he should not be sexually aroused or he might be consider a cross-dresser or Transvestite.

https://www.pantyhose-stockings-hosiery.com/pantyhose-for-men/

https://www.glieberman.com/bodystockings-for-men/ some of the manantyhose at this sight have fly for easy relief.. Also this site uses male models to display their products. Do not shop at a website that shows you woman wearing products design for men, just do not trust them.

There are a group of men that has to wear a bra because of a medical condition called gynecomastia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gynecomastia. Gynecomastia are enlarged breasts on a man, mantites or manboobs as some would reference there condition. This condition can develop in 15% of all men. It can be quite embarrassing for a man and depending on his condition he will bind them just as a female cross-dresser might do or he can wear a bar for the same reason woman do, not to be sexually but for comfort. If you have mantities do not feel you are the only man with breasts https://www.gynecomastia.org/ is a link for you.

How to measure a man for a bra https://feminizationsecrets.com/transgender-crossdressing-bra-size/ and http://www.femulate.org/2013/11/nine-out-of-ten-men-wear-wrong-size-bras.html

Living in Sri Lanka now

I am not living and working in Sri Lanka.  My new location is is better than my last in Saudi Arabia.
At least I can go out dressed and have some fun.