Sweetie, Well I
would like you be naked and me in my french maid outfit, I curtsy and say,
"Is there anything I can do for you sir." I am facing away for
you and bend over to pick up some glasses, my five inch heals makes my long
legs appear longer, you follow the seam in my nylon from my 5" heels
to the lase top. You see my garter holding and my lase ruffle french cut
panties. I turn around and you are pointing at your cock. Oh sir, I
said, "For me sir, oh how lovely." I kneel before you and
softly kiss the head of your cock. You reach down and rub my titties, I
moan with pleasure.I lick the shaft of your cock, you nod with approval.
I suck on your balls, you smile with delight. You pinch my
nipples, I gasp with excitement. Your balls are in my mouth, your eyes
closed. Your cock is not hard, I stand it up straight and it is huge
compared to other guys I have given service. I lick the head of your cock
and look into your face, your eyes open to watch, I open my mouth and slide
your cock over my lips and into my warm wetness closing my lips around your
thick shaft. My tongue licks the underside of your cock and you grin in
pleasure, I take more of your cock in my mouth when it reaches the back of my
throat I push more and you slide down my throat, I gag and let your cock slide
out, I pull down and your cock slides deeper into my throat. My throat
muscles contracts around your cock and you feel great pleasure. I gag on
your cock, you enjoy seeing that. You place your hand on my head forcing
your cock up and down, fucking my mouth. You call me, "My sweet
cocksucker," and encourages me to take it all baby. .Your other
hand is still rubbing my nipples which are vary hard so is my clittly. I
am sexually aroused. I move to a position so your cock can slide deeper
and deeper. Finally my tongue is licking your balls a feeling you have
never felt. You can slap my ass at this time each time it is louder and
my butt get redder.I pull aside my panties crotch and your next slip finds a
finger touching my cunt hole. I moan in delight. Each slap redden my butt
and your finger drives deeper into my mangina. The time is right, your
cock is hot, hard and primed. I turn and face away from you and straddle your
body. I lower my bottom over your cock and you watch it slide easy into
my body. I take a little at a time riding up and down until you see all
of your cock buried deep within my body. You see my red ass caused by
your hand, you are please at what this cunt can do, a good sucker and now a
good fucker. I ride faster up and down and can feel your body
meeting my movements, I now can feel you get tense, your push your cock up and
bury it as deep as it will go. Then I feel that wonderful warmth deep inside
me and stop moving, I could the squirts, one, two, there, I contract my
cunt massaging your manhood each time it squirts, that excites you and you
squirt a fourth and fifth time. You can see some of your man juice
leading out of my not full cunt. You say ok bitch that is enough now
clean my cock. I slowly easy up savoring every last moment I have to
enjoy your cock in me. I turn around and see your cock white with your
man juice and lick it clean, You watch in approval. I am finished, I
stand up, curtsy and leave . Sweetie, just thinking of you.
I am 58 year old, white married and bisexual. My wife does not know that I am bi and that I meet other men. I also like to dress up in woman cloths for the pleasure of others. My bi man name is Roger who only has been bi for fifteen years. My CD name is Cindy who has only enjoyed the pleasures of cross-dressing for the last five years. I am working in Saudi Arabia where they put you in jail for being gay. This place is not safe for Cindy to dress and play.
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Monday, October 29, 2012
My progression from straight to bi to CD
When I was 38 I had my first affair with a divorce
woman. It lasted nine months and I
learned more about sex from her that my first 18 years of marriage. You just
can not have one affair and over the next four years I was able to meet many married
and divorce woman. My normal method for releasing sexual tension was heterosexual
affairs married and divorced woman. These affairs were risky and was
costly. There was a risk involved in
affairs with woman .When I was forty-three it was not as easy finding women who
would give free blowjob service. It was easy finding men who providing this free
for service. Migration from meeting woman to one-way bisexual meetings with men
was an end for my needs. I had an attitude
toward receiving oral from men as not being bisexuality activity. I just wanted
them to suck me, I did not have a desire to suck them. All I wanted was someone sucking my cock,
cum in his or her mouths and leave. Sucking them, jacking them, seeing them naked
was not a stimulating for me. I
sought hot mouths at Glory
holes, gay bathhouses, adult theaters. I found that Craigslist was a good place
to find men who enjoy sucking cock. After three
years
of
receiving a blowjob, my sexual id developed a curiosity about
of
giving
fellatio
(age 46). Sucking a cock is a gay
or queer, considered outside society norm and well outside my norm. It took me awhile, finding the right man
who would be patient with my virgin mouth; finding the courage took longer before
I ventured giving fellatio. Once I felt a cock in your mouth exploding,
after the taste and feel of semen sliding around, I became addicted on giving blowjobs.
My bisexual meets slowly progressed from receiving blowjob, next giving blowjobs,
eventually ventured into receiving anal sex (when I was 56).
Now
that I give oral and receive anal, I was a confirm bisexual. I looked for other men to have sex. It was easy to fins straight married men to
suck their cocks, a few would even use my manginia. This went on for ten years. I would post on line what I wanted and I
would get email interests. On the
average I was able to meet two men a week.
This went on for five years. Over
that time, yes I have sucked over 1000 men, about 100 topped me. Ten or so did it bare back.
Now
I am older, it is harder finding men for sex.
I discovered if I dressed in woman clothes there was a new group of
people to meet, admires. I have only
been dressing for five years now. My
meets are down to maybe 30 men per year but more than have topped me.
I
now desire to dress as Cindy, be treated like a woman in public and a slut in
private. I adore verbal humiliation during
sex. I am a submissive but not a slave.
I write erotic stories in my spare time and I am writing a user guide for
cross-dressers.
Sunday, October 28, 2012
Why I like to Cross-dress
I like to dress up as a sexy woman for the same reason a
woman will dress up sexy, to attach men for sex. I am a bisexual and find that the older I got
the less attractive I was in meeting others.
I found there is a large group of men, who are straight or bisexual who
like meeting a man in a dress.
The more I dressed the more I enjoyed the escape I derived,
leaving Roger behind and becoming Cindy.
Cindy can be who she wants to be, most of the time she is submissive any
plays the part that attracts men.
Cross-dressing allows me to explore a different personality, no longer
do I have to be in charge making decisions that can affect people lives. Cindy does not have to decide where to go to
dinner, what to eat, let the guy do that, if they are dominate, let them
lead. Cindy likes to follow.
At first the cloths was a end to the means, the means was
to be laid. I picked out clothes that
would attract men. After dressing many
times there was a feeling that developed about the cloths, the smoothness of
the stockings, they feeling of your genitals rubbing against silk, satin or
lace. So now, sometimes it is fun to put
on panties or stockings under my Roger clothes and go out in public, taking a
risk of being caught.
I dress for sex. I
dress as a woman to attract men for sex.
I dress as a woman and allow men to use me. I enjoy being the bottom to
the man's top. I emulate a female form
and the better I do, the more men I can meet. I like using makeup because it
makes me look passable, makes me looking 10 to 15 years younger. It hides some of my aging spots on my face. I like the outfits I wear because they make
me look slimmer and hides my few extra pounds.
What I do not like, is the high heels that hurt my
feet. The form shaping garments that
holds some things in but takes my breath away.
My wig falls off if I am on my back enjoying myself. My make up rubs off
on my cloths and that of there. Stockings that run after one wear. False
eyelashes that will not go on correctly. And how can anyone type with long fingernails?
My reasons are different than others, only started to
cross-dress five years ago and now I love makeovers, and being Cindy for days,
going out in public, shopping, watching woman so I can dress and look like
them. I know what type of cloths to hide
my board shoulders, my little extra around the middle, to hide my manly
arms. I know how to be smooth all over. I know a lot about contouring. Do I want to be a woman full time, no? Do I still enjoy being a man, yes? Do I like
being Cindy, sure anytime?
Friday, October 26, 2012
User manual for cross-dressers
I am writing a user manual for beginner and newbie cross-dressers and it might be helpful for someone that has been dressing for some time. Contact me at cindyusa58@yahoo.com if you would like to proof a chapter or two of the manual.
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Erotic Humiliation can be fun both
BDSM – What Is Erotic Humiliation?
“BDSM”
stands for “bondage, domination, sadism and masochism.” This is just a universal
term for many different styles of kinky sex, including fetishes and role-play, as
well as less common activities such as erotic asphyxiation or erotic humiliation.
Erotic humiliation is the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby one person
gains arousal or erotic excitement from the powerful emotions of being
humiliated and demeaned, or of humiliating another; it is often, but not
always, accompanied by sexual stimulation of one or both partners in the
activity. The humiliation need not be sexual in itself; as with many other
sexual activities, it is the feelings derived from it that are sought, regardless
of the nature of the actual activity. It can be verbal or physical, and can be
relatively private or public. Often it can become ritualized, and unlike some sexual variations, it can
be easily carried out over a long distance (as online). The distinction between humiliation and dominance in an activity such
as erotic spanking is that the sought effect is primarily the humiliation; the activity is
just a means to that end.
While fantasy and fascination with erotic humiliation is a prevalent
part of BDSM and other sexual role-play, relatively little has been written on
it. Humiliation play can, however, be
taken to a point where it becomes emotionally or psychologically distressing to
one or the other partner, especially if it is public
humiliation. Erotic humiliation can become extreme
enough to be considered a form of edge play, which some
consider may best be approached with advance negotiation and use of a safe
word. This is a highly subjective issue, and
depends greatly on context.
Depending on whether someone has a dominant or submissive
personality, the act of being humiliated or humiliating another during sex can
be very arousing for both partners. Rarely does a person enjoy both humiliating
and being humiliated and many sexual partnerships are formed because one partner
prefers domination while the other prefers submission.
Humiliation play is also connected to sexual fetishism, in that non-sexual activities may become sexualized by association with
arousal, and also may be associated with exhibitionism in the sense of wanting others to witness (or being aroused by others witnessing)
one's sexual degradation.
For some people, activities such as name-calling are a way of achieving ego reduction or getting over sexual inhibitions. For example, between gay people, terms usually
associated with homophobia may be used, such
as faggot, slut, bitch,
whore or cocksucker.
The Difference between Humiliation and Domination
Many people may confuse erotic humiliation with domination and
other forms of BDSM, because the roles are very similar. There is, however, a simple
distinction between the two. Those who enjoy dominating others enjoy “commanding”
or “ordering” their submissive partner to do something, and the submissive partner
enjoys being “commanded” to do something. With humiliation, the dominant partner
enjoys verbally or physically belittling their partner, and the submissive partner
enjoys being belittled and humiliated just as much.
Cross-dressing
and erotic humiliation
Men dress in woman clothes for many different reasons. One reason is to attach attention of
men. A small amount of cross-dresser are
bisexual and desire to meet admires or other cross-dressers for sex. The cross-dresser can either be dominate or
top or submissive or bottom. Some
cross-dressers can switch and be either.
Men a man plays the part of a woman by cross-dressing he is looking to
be treated like a woman, but that treatment can be from both extremes.
One extreme you are a lovely woman, wife and desire to be
treated with respect and terms of endearment.
On the other extreme, you can be considered a loose woman of low moral
and then you are a slut, whore or bitch and are treated in the fashion.
This verbal name-calling is a form of erotic humiliation,
which both parties enjoy. The top
dominate is exerting his power the bottom.
To be called a "fucking bitch" may sound degrading but it is a
compliment to hear in the middle of oral or anal sex. The top may even ask if you agree, "Are
you my cum slut?"
Where you can reply, "Yes, I am, I need to be yours,
tell me what to do?" This verbal
exchange can increase the physical sexual activity actually cause the climaxing
of one or the other or both.
Sometimes a dominate can whisper a word to a submissive and
they are turned without any physical contact.
Remember not all cross-dresser desire erotic humiliation so treat them
as the woman they look and desire to be.
Irrumation between Fellatio and deep throat
Irrumation is
the act of thrusting of the penis between the legs, breasts, feet, upper thighs
(also known as interfemoral sex), mouth[1]and throat, or between the abdomens of two partners. In the ancient
Roman sexual vocabulary, irrumatio is strictly a form of os impurum, oral sex,
in which a man forces his penis into someone else's mouth, almost always that of
another man.[2]
"Latin erotic terminology actually
distinguishes two acts ... First, fellation,
in which the man’s penis is ... orally excited by ... the ... [fellator ..., and]
Second, irrumation ... in which the man (the irrumator) ... engages
in ... motions by moving his hips and body in a rhythm of his own choice."[3]
Irrumatio is actively thrusting the penis
into the mouth of a partner. A distinction was once made between irrumatio and fellatio
based on who is actively moving. Irrumatio meant to thrust the penis into the partner’s
mouth; fellatio meant to move the head and mouth up-and-down around the penis, but
this distinction has almost completely vanished in modern English.
Irrumatio gives a different experience to
a man than when he is being fellated, because he’s the one moving, he’s more tense
and active, and he’s controlling his experience much more so than in the regular
fellatio. What does a man get out of irrumatio? As with any sex act, pleasing the
partner is sometimes more important than deriving any innate pleasure from the act
itself. The benefit will largely be the knowledge that you are pleasing your partner.
In some cases, however, the receiver may
enjoy it just as much as the man does. Many cocksucker enjoy rough sex to one degree or another, and some like to be “degraded”
or dominated. There’s nothing wrong with that at all, so long as it is something
you do consensually (and recognize that it has to be confined to the bedroom).
§ If you and your partner want to try this, lie down on your back with a pillow
under your head. He should straddle you with his hands and knees so that his crotch
is over your face, and his head is above yours. He should move around until he can
easily fit his penis into your mouth. You should make your mouth wet and form a
snug ring with her lips around his shaft. Basically, any position that works well
for regular oral sex will work for irrumatio as long as it allows the man to move
his hips.
§ In fellatio, the bottom is the one who controls how fast and deep the penis
goes into her mouth. In irrumatio, however, the top is the one who’s in control
for the most part. If you can learn to overcome
your gag reflex, then irrumatio will become a bit easier for you. Deep throat is
a form of oral sex in which the entire length of the erect penis is taken into the
mouth.
§ You can also use the Stopper Technique to maintain some control over the
depth of his thrusts. Wrap one hand around his lower shaft, to use as a stopper,
allowing only as much of his penis into your mouth as you’re comfortable with. If
your hand is at the base, this also adds a pleasurable pressure against his body.
You can use your hand to squeeze and stroke the lower part of his penis as the top
part slides in and out, moving the hand down to the base as the penis slides in.
§ When he begins thrusting, he should slide his penis in and out with his hips,
without moving his knees or using his hands. He can add things like rocking his
pelvis from side to side or circularly (called “grinding”), or you can rock your
head from side to side, or move it up and back to meet his strokes, or use your
tongue if you like.
§ It is important that Irrumatio the guy with the cock, start out slowly, and
work his way up in terms of speed and depth. You should find some way to let your
partner know when he’s going too deep, especially if your head is resting against
something that doesn’t allow you to pull back. Agree to a signal before you get
started. Don’t plan on using verbal communication because you’ll have a penis in
your mouth and may not be able to speak in time. Using your hands to tap him on
his leg (or wherever) when he starts getting too deep is a good idea. If you are
the man, it is very important that you stop the instant your partner indicates that
something is wrong, The more you do this, the more “in tune” you’ll be with your
partner, and you’ll gradually develop the ability to sense when it is becoming too
much for her.
§ Irrumatio can be another sex act added to your sexual repertoire and enjoyed
as you feel the desire to do it. Some men can get into this second kind of fellatio
while others don’t like it. A frequent complaint is that the irrunmatioee feels
abused, that they has no control as the man thrusts too deeply or violently, causing
gagging, fear, or blocking of the airway. This needn’t happen if the before
they can talk freely and respect their own and each other’s wants and needs.
§
It is common knowledge that men LOVE oral
sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just
about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. There has been a debate who gives better oral
sex, men or woman. While there might be
a few good woman who knows how to get a man off, a majority of cocksuckers who
are men all do a better job. Just go to
any adult book store with a glory hole and test the power of a guy on his
knees. If a site of a man sucking your
cock is disturbing, then try a man in a dress sucking your cock. Not all
cross-dresser are bisexual but those that are love to give oral to
admires. So if you have not experience
oral sex with a cross-dress take the time and enjoy.
Sunday, October 21, 2012
Not that I endorse anal sex but if you ever had a desire, read this first
Ten Rules of Anal Sex
by Jack Morin
Jack Morin, PhD, a San Francisco sex therapist and researcher, is the author of Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men and Women.
Anal Eroticism is surrounded by a powerful taboo. Yet millions of men and women - straight, gay and bisexual - are experimenting with anal sex. The anus, richly endowed with nerve endings and interconnected with the main pelvic muscles, is the closest erogenous neighbor of the genitals and contracts rhythmically during orgasm. Thirty-five years ago, Kinsey stated that the anal region had erotic significance for about half of the population. In a survey of 100,000 Playboy readers, 47 percent of the men and 61 percent of the women admitted to having tried anal intercourse.
Yet the anal taboo inhibits most people from thinking, talking and learning about the sexual use of the anus. Listed here are the ten things most men and women still do not know about anal sex.
1. Anal intercourse is the least practiced form of anal sex.
There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically. The most common techniques include touching the anal opening while masturbating or stimulating a partner's anus during intercourse or oral sex.
Some people enjoy the sensation of a finger - their own or a lover's - insinuated into their anal opening and gently rotated. Others may prefer the insertion of a dildo or vibrator beyond the anal opening and short anal canal into the larger rectum. Many men, including hetereosexuals, prefer this form of penetration.
Oral-anal lovemaking is popularly known as rimming. The very idea disgusts some people. Others enjoy performing it or allowing themselves to be probed in this special way.
2. Anal stimulation, including intercourse, is not painful if done properly.
The belief that anal stimulation, especially intercourse, has to hurt is a persistent and dangerous myth. Just as pain anywhere in the body indicates that something is wrong, so is the same true of the anal area. With its high concentration of nerve endings, the anus can produce extreme agony when it is mistreated. Yet it can be a source of great pleasure.
When a finger, object or penis is intorduced into the anus, the anal muscles go into spasm, as if fighting off an invasion. Pain will result if the partners do not wait for these muscles to relax. Under sufficient stress they will eventually collapse and the pain subside, unless further damage is done. But, any 'pleasure' afforded from this kind of activity derives mostly from the absence of discomfort.
Maximum anal pleasure requires the elimination of all pain or physical trauma from the anal experience. Self-protection on the part of the passive partner involves being ready to say "no" until he or she is ready to proceed. Readiness is a combination of physical relaxation, usually helped along by plenty of leisurely anal touching, and desire.
Occasionally the anal muscles are relaxes, but the passive partner is still not in the mood. Stimulation should mount only in proportion to the degree of receptivity.
3. Anal sex can be enjoyed even if it has been consistently uncomfortable in the past.
Sufficient desire alone does not necessarily guarantee pleasurable anal sex. Nor is an uncomfortable previous experience always the reason for a lack of interest in or desire for anal sex.
Chronic anal tension is the most common cause of anal discomfort during sex. Hemorrhoids and constipation are usually a sign of this condition. Tension can be relieved by touching the anus and becoming more familiar with it. An ideal time to explore the anal opening is while taking a shower or bath. Deep breathing also affects the anal muscles. Tensing the anus and the letting go in another way of learning to relax it. Anyone who enjoys masturbation might want to experiment with some form of anal stimulation, though he or she should stop if any discomfort occurs.
For many people the turning point in anal sex is when they allow a partner to massage the anus with the understanding that intercourse will not be attempted. Then the recipient of anal caresses can concentrate solely on the pleasure that this erogenous zone is capable of generating.
4. Two muscle rings called sphincters surround the anal opening. Each functions independently.
If you insert a finger about one half-inch into your anus and press your fingertip against the side, you can clearly feel the two sphincter muscles. There is less than a quarter-inch between them. The external sphincter is controlled by the central nervous system - just like the muscles of the hand, for example. You can readily tense and relax this sphincter whenever you want.
The internal sphincter is quite different. This muscle is controlled by the involuntary or autonomic part of the nervous system, which governs such functions as heartbeat and stress response.
The internal sphincter reflects and responds to fear and anxiety during anal sex. It will cause the anus to tense up automatically even if the passive partner is trying to relax. Thus, precautions about safety and comfort are essential here.
Even if a person does feel comfortable during anal sex, he or she may still need to learn voluntary control over his or her internal sphincter in order to relax it at will. Doing so requires regularly inserting a finger, perhaps in the shower each day, and feeling the internal sphincter. The muscle changes spontaneously and in response to behavior. In this instance, simply paying attention is more important than trying to relax. Anyone can gradually learn to control the internal sphincter at will.
5. Anal stimulation provides many kinds of pleasure
The highest concentration of nerve endings is around the anal opening itself. A finger can focus on them especailly effectively. When an object or penis is inserted beyond the anal opening into the rectum, other pleasures are involved. The outer protion of the rectum, like the vagina, has several nerve endings. The inner portion responds mostly to pressure.
Some people enjoy the feelings of pressure and fullness once they understand that these sensations do not presage an impending bowel movement. Rectal pressure is especially important to enthusiasts of "fisting," a form of anal sex in which several fingers or een the entire hand and forearm are inserted into the rectum and sometimes into the lower colon.
In men, the protate - which is just beyond the rectal wall, a few inches in, towards the front of the body - can be a source of pleasure when massaged by a finger, an object, or a penis. Also, the lower end of the penis, or "bulb," is near the anal opening opening. It is stimulated indirectly by most types of anal sex.
Anal pleasure can be psychological as well as physical. The anal taboo adds to the thrill of the forbidden. The most common anti-anal message (it's dirty!) sometimes returns as a source of raunchy, sleazy excitement. Rimming enthusiasts may enjoy the feeling that they are being disgustingly - and delightfully - perverse. Other people regard the anus as a secret, special place. Sharing it with a partner is an act of openness and giving.
6. Anal stimulation can lead to orgasm
A minority of men and women can respond orgasmically to anal sex without direct genital stimulation. Women probably do so through pelvic muscle contractions - and a small minority even though the sheer excitement of being anally penetrated. When men expereience an orgasm from anal stimulation, they tend to focus on the prostate. No doubt they are also responding to indirect stimulation of the penile bulb.
Orgasms from anal stimulation are most likely to occur when the participants become thoroughly absorbed in their sensations and fantasies. An lmost certain way to prevent such an orgasm is to be become determined to have one. Seeking an anal orgasm will create new pressures and disrupt the pleasure.
It must be remembered that most people require direct genital stimulation in order to climax. On the other hand, a few people have orgasms only with anal stimulation.
7. Diet contributes to the enjoyment of anal sex
Regular bowel movements are the major function of the anus and rectum. There must be sufficient fiber in a person's diet to make his or her feces soft, bulky and well formed. This allows a bowel movement to be produced without force or effort. Forced evacuations irritate anal tissues, causing discomfort and adding to muscular tensions. Fresh fruits, vegetables, whole grains or unprocessed bran are important sources of fiber.
8. Different rules of hygiene apply to the vagina and rectum
Since intercourse can be vaginal or rectal, many people assume the the same rules apply for the penetration of the vagina and rectum. Although both are lined with soft tissue and are capable of expanding, they are radically dissimilar.
The rectum is not straight. After the short anal canal which connects the anal opening to the rectum, the rectum tilts toward the front of the body. A few inches in, it curves back - sometimes as much as 90 degrees. Then, after a few more inches, it swoops toward the front of the body once again. A person can learn about the shape of his or her rectum by gently inserting a soft object, trying different angles and body positions and concentrating on how it feels. Make sure the object has a flared base so that if you loose your grip, it won't slip into the rectum and become irretrievable.
The rectum does not produce lubrication like the vagina but only a small amount of mucus. Therefore, rectal penetration always requires a lubricant. Chemical additives should be avoided. Water-based lubricants are latex-compatible.
The main function of the rectum is to act as a passageway for feces. But feces are not normally stored in the rectum except just prior to a bowel movement. Yet small amounts may remain in the rectum, expecially if the feces are not well formed. Anal douching before lovemaking will help some people especailly concerned with cleanliness to relax. For others the idea of dirtiness heightens the joy of the forbidden; for them, douching is anti-erotic.
9. Anal intercourse is not necessarily an act of dominance and submission.
The top-bottom imagery associated with anal intercourse is widespread. No doubt the belief that anal sex has to hurt contributes to this notion. And in fact some people are intensely excited by top-bottom fantasies about anal sex. The thought that they are submitting to such a degrading act is a terrific thrill. However, actual, not fantasized, anal pain can lead to trouble.
For others, the enjoyment of anal sex is inhibited by top-bottom imagery. The idea of surrendering control, and perhaps submitting to humiliation, causes immediate, protective tensing of the anal muscles. These individuals are more likely to relax and enjoy themselves if they can learn to regard anal sex as pleasurable rather than as an expression of power.
10. Anal sex can be perfectly safe, even beneficial.
The taboo against anal eroticism is perpetuated by the almost universal belief among physicians that anal sex is inevitably dangerous. No physical injury from anal stimulation results if both partners refuse to tolerate pain, never use force and avoid the use of drugs.
All the other risks center on sexually transmitted diseases. Each of the common STDs - gonorrhea, syphillis, herpes - can affect the anus. Intestinal parasites, bacteria or tiny bugs are usually passed along when fecal matter finds its way into someone's mouth or vagina, most likely through rimming.
AIDS has complicated the matter. The HIV virus can pass from the semen or blood of an infected person to the bloodstream of a partner through a tiny break in the rectal tissue during anal intercourse.
To avoid this risk, anal intercourse and rimming should not be practiced casually. Those who do enjoy anal intercourse should always use a condom. Rimming should always be accomplished by a latex barrier. Of course, in a monogamous realtionship with two healthy people, the risk of disease transmitted anally is reduced.
Thousands of men and women with chronic anal medical problems have restored their anal health by challenging their negative attitudes. This approach is indespensible for full erotic enjoyment of the anus.
Friday, October 19, 2012
I have researched a lot of web site on what make up is best
for cross-dressing. This is a summary of
what other cross-dresser recommend.
Essentials are:
Bright red lipstick),
Base
BEN NYE - Professional Use -
Stage, Film, Video.
VISIORA - Christian Dior's
professional line.
MAC - (Make-up Art Cosmetics)
also have professional line for film.
RCMA - (Research Council of
Make-up Artists) Professional Make-up.
Primer
Victoria’s Secret Airbrush FX
Face Primer SPF 20
L’Oreal Studio Secrets
Professional Smoothing Resurfacing Primer
Make Up For Ever HD High
Definition Primer
Smashbox Photo Finish Primer
MAC Prep+Prime Skin
Conceler
Dermablend Cover Creme
Foundation
MAC Full Coverage Foundation
Make Up For Ever Full Cover
Concealer
Revlon Color Stay
Max Factor Pan-Stik
Dermablend Cover Crème
Colortration Liquid Cover
Makeup
Ben Nye Five O’ Sharp
B19 Neutralizer by Mehron.
StarBlend cake makeup by Mehron. Color, Blithe Spirit "Anchor Woman
Blue" a.k.a. the famous "Blue Goo".
Foundation (buy small cheap bottles until you match your
skin tone then buy larger),
Dermablend Cover Crème
MAC Full Coverage Foundation
Colortration Super
Concealing Liquid Makeup
Max Factor "Pan
Stik."
Powder (match to the foundation),
Dermablend Loose Setting Power
Kryolan Professional
Coty Translucent Medium
Max Studio Sculpt
Max Factor lasting Performance
Blusher (most contain two or three shades),
Victorias's Secret Beauty Rush
blush, or bronzer
Clarins blush brush and
Powder Blush in Rose Petal, $27;
Neutrogena Soft Color
Blush in Soft Suede, $9.75;
Lancôme Blush Subtil in Miel
Glacé, $25.50;
T. LeClerc Powder Blush in
Rose Sable, $25;
Max Factor Natural Brush-On
Satin Blush in Mulberry, $6.80;
Pur Minerals Pressed Powder
Bronzer, $15;
Max Factor Natural Brush-On
Satin Blush in Plumberry and Peach Spice, $6.80 each.
Eye shadow (I buy the smaller compacts that have lots of
colors),
Christian Dior Aquadior
Eyeshadow, $19;
Eyeliner or kohl (don’t play around, get black),
L'Oreal Wear Infinite
Long Lasting Powder Eye Liner, $7.
Bobbi Brown Long-Wear Gel $18
each.
Eyebrow
Try Laura Mercier Long-Wear
Eye Pencil, $16
Mascara (same),
Beauty Rush mascara
Lashblast Fusion mascara
Revlon ColorStay Overtime Lash
Tint
Eyebrow pencil (a few shades darker than your hair color),
Lipstick (get a couple of shades, I like the plum shades)
Max Factor Lipfinity Lipstick
Nail polish (I have a plum red that matches my lipstick).
Accessories such as brushes,
Fine Eyeliner: sable point
Eyeliner: sable point
Eye shadow: Ponyhair, Does
Foot
Large & Small Shading
Brushes: Ponyhair, Fan/Taper
Fluff Brush: Goat Hair
Sponge Applicator
Disposable sponge tip
applicators
Eyebrow/lash Brush
Nylon Tapered Eyebrow Brush
Lip Brush: Sable
Contour Brush: Goat Hair
1/2"
Blusher: Goat Hair 1"
Powder Brush
Artists Brushes for Make-Up:
Watercolor: 1 - 12, 16, 18, 20, rounds 00 short, or long #'s 1 - 10, 12, 14,
16, 18, 20.
e.l.f. 11 Piece Brush Collection Perfectly
priced at $30,
small makeup applicators for eye shadow
Moisturizer
Physicians Formula Organic
Wear tinted mositurizer.
Neutrogena oil-free moisturizer
with SPF15
Hair bands and clips
Sponges: Polyurethane Foam and Latex Stipple
Puffs
Pencils: Grey, Black, Brown and Pencil Sharpener
Kleenex
Brow/Mascara Comb
Scissors - Small
False Lashes and Adhesive
Cold Cream
Astringent
Brush Cleaner
Small Mirror
Small Glass Container
Cotton Wool
Spirit Gum & Remover
Styptic Pen
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