Irrumation between Fellatio and deep throat

Irrumation is the act of thrusting of the penis between the legs, breasts, feet, upper thighs (also known as interfemoral sex), mouth^[1]and throat, or between the abdomens of two partners. In the ancient Roman sexual vocabulary, irrumatio is strictly a form of os impurum, oral sex, in which a man forces his penis into someone else's mouth, almost always that of another man.^[2]

"Latin erotic terminology actually distinguishes two acts ... First, fellation, in which the man’s penis is ... orally excited by ... the ... [fellator ..., and] Second, irrumation ... in which the man (the irrumator) ... engages in ... motions by moving his hips and body in a rhythm of his own choice."^[3]

Irrumatio: Even Better Than Fellatio?

Irrumatio is actively thrusting the penis into the mouth of a partner. A distinction was once made between irrumatio and fellatio based on who is actively moving. Irrumatio meant to thrust the penis into the partner’s mouth; fellatio meant to move the head and mouth up-and-down around the penis, but this distinction has almost completely vanished in modern English.

Irrumatio gives a different experience to a man than when he is being fellated, because he’s the one moving, he’s more tense and active, and he’s controlling his experience much more so than in the regular fellatio. What does a man get out of irrumatio? As with any sex act, pleasing the partner is sometimes more important than deriving any innate pleasure from the act itself. The benefit will largely be the knowledge that you are pleasing your partner.

In some cases, however, the receiver may enjoy it just as much as the man does. Many cocksucker enjoy rough sex to one degree or another, and some like to be “degraded” or dominated. There’s nothing wrong with that at all, so long as it is something you do consensually (and recognize that it has to be confined to the bedroom).

§  If you and your partner want to try this, lie down on your back with a pillow under your head. He should straddle you with his hands and knees so that his crotch is over your face, and his head is above yours. He should move around until he can easily fit his penis into your mouth. You should make your mouth wet and form a snug ring with her lips around his shaft. Basically, any position that works well for regular oral sex will work for irrumatio as long as it allows the man to move his hips.

§  In fellatio, the bottom is the one who controls how fast and deep the penis goes into her mouth. In irrumatio, however, the top is the one who’s in control for the most part.  If you can learn to overcome your gag reflex, then irrumatio will become a bit easier for you. Deep throat is a form of oral sex in which the entire length of the erect penis is taken into the mouth.

§  You can also use the Stopper Technique to maintain some control over the depth of his thrusts. Wrap one hand around his lower shaft, to use as a stopper, allowing only as much of his penis into your mouth as you’re comfortable with. If your hand is at the base, this also adds a pleasurable pressure against his body. You can use your hand to squeeze and stroke the lower part of his penis as the top part slides in and out, moving the hand down to the base as the penis slides in.

§  When he begins thrusting, he should slide his penis in and out with his hips, without moving his knees or using his hands. He can add things like rocking his pelvis from side to side or circularly (called “grinding”), or you can rock your head from side to side, or move it up and back to meet his strokes, or use your tongue if you like.

§  It is important that Irrumatio the guy with the cock, start out slowly, and work his way up in terms of speed and depth. You should find some way to let your partner know when he’s going too deep, especially if your head is resting against something that doesn’t allow you to pull back. Agree to a signal before you get started. Don’t plan on using verbal communication because you’ll have a penis in your mouth and may not be able to speak in time. Using your hands to tap him on his leg (or wherever) when he starts getting too deep is a good idea. If you are the man, it is very important that you stop the instant your partner indicates that something is wrong, The more you do this, the more “in tune” you’ll be with your partner, and you’ll gradually develop the ability to sense when it is becoming too much for her.

§  Irrumatio can be another sex act added to your sexual repertoire and enjoyed as you feel the desire to do it. Some men can get into this second kind of fellatio while others don’t like it. A frequent complaint is that the irrunmatioee feels abused, that they has no control as the man thrusts too deeply or violently, causing gagging, fear, or blocking of the airway. This needn’t happen if the before they can talk freely and respect their own and each other’s wants and needs.

§  It is common knowledge that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down.  There has been a debate who gives better oral sex, men or woman.  While there might be a few good woman who knows how to get a man off, a majority of cocksuckers who are men all do a better job.  Just go to any adult book store with a glory hole and test the power of a guy on his knees.  If a site of a man sucking your cock is disturbing, then try a man in a dress sucking your cock. Not all cross-dresser are bisexual but those that are love to give oral to admires.  So if you have not experience oral sex with a cross-dress take the time and enjoy.