I have copies and pasted information about how to have anal sex, at least about how to be clean before you try to be a bottom.
Cindy
WARNING: This page is about how to clean the
shit out of your ass for anal sex - it might be a bit too graphic for some
people. Also, this is what I do - I’m not recommending you do it. I
am not qualified to give medical advice or know what all the side effects might
be for everyone.
Usually I really enjoy
anal sex and sometimes I can’t even cum without anal stimulation. I am
not into scat and if I even suspect I might be dirty it really turns me
off. This is what I do to clean my ass for anal sex. If you have
any other tips let me know and I’ll add what I think are the best ones to this
page.
How I clean my ass
depends on what will be happening. First, if I know I will be doing anal
sex I try to poop at least a couple of hours before. Also, I always use
the “finger check” immediately before anal. I literally put my finger in
my ass and pull anything out that I find. If it’s soft or I can’t remove
it with my finger then I use an enema. The enema will remove the soft
stuff and might leave more solid stuff, which I remove with a second finger
check. (I warned you it was going to be graphic). The downside is that
water is left behind and most lube is water soluble - in other words a very raw
ass if too much water is still there. I hope it goes without saying that
you should wash your hands very well after this.
If I am having anal
sex with only one person then I don’t need to do anything else, but if I am
doing a gangbang where a lot of guys will be fucking my ass or I know the guy
is really big (especially really thick) then a more thorough
cleaning. All those cocks pumping my ass creates a vacuum that will pull
shit down.
My preferred method is
to drink magnesium citrate. It’s used before major surgery or colonoscopy
to clean out EVERYTHING. I try to use this at least 24 hours beforehand,
but if necessary just the night before. I take it on an empty stomach and
then drink a big glass of water. And then stay very close
to the toilet for the next several hours. Several lit candles (or a
bonfire) and a gas mask are a good idea, too. To put it bluntly this
stuff makes you shit your brains out.
The reason I try
to do this at least 24 hours beforehand is that small, sharp,
undigested food can get caught at the asshole and they will make anal
sex hurt (for me, not the guy). Doing this a day in advance
gives everything a chance to come out on its own and for my ass to settle
down. I still do a finger check just beforehand, too.
The other option,
which I used to do, is modify my diet. Two days before I eat only salads
and foods high in fiber. I drink protein shakes and lots of water.
I’m trying to get calories while using natural laxatives that won’t produce a lot
more shit. Then the day before I don’t eat, only drink clear liquids, and
do a couple of enemas (one in the morning and another that night). The
day of I eat light, but still more on the liquid side (protein
shakes work best for me). And of course, I do a finger check just
before.
I think you can see
why I prefer the magnesium citrate. I am a carnivore. I love
meat. Steak and potatoes are the perfect food and I like my steak
rare. Practically starving for 3 days so a group of guys can fuck me in my
ass kinda sucks. But I try to be an obedient little slut for my Husband
and he likes to see my ass gangbanged. :D
As for the actual act
of anal sex - use lots and lots of lube. Sometimes I can do anal with one
person without lube (how it happens I have no idea), but in general lube your
ass and lube the cock and don’t be afraid to re-lube often. Then it’s all
about relaxing. A lot of times I need a cock to enter my ass and thrust
slowly for a while before I loosen up.
I hope people found
this helpful. I apologize for being so graphic, but there’s no polite way
to explain this.
THE CLEANING:
Sure you can get away without cleaning, but
don't be surprised if you get more coming out than going in if you don't clean.
Usually you can tell if somethings coming up, but I will say that on more than
one occasion me and my boyfriend have had to stop midway because of the
unpleasant idea of ...well, s**t (we're all, presumably, adults here, we can
handle this I hope.) So cleaning is more than just recommended or encouraged,
it's an implied must.
So what to do? What posters around here have said is all good...most of it.
If you have one of those bidets or shower
heads that you can remove and hopefully use while sitting
in the toilet that's perfect, it's less messy, but you really have to ignore to
the best of your ability that you will see something. It's not a clean
experience. It's not looking at a Monet or a Van
Gogh. The quicker you build your
mind past that, the quicker you get used to the experience, and thus the
quicker you can spice up your sex life or make the curiosity of anal sex as an
occasional fun practice (I admit to having opted out of it from time to time,
but mostly out of laziness.)
You can even buy a pack of latex gloves to
make sure you get really clean. Yes. I'm saying to go in there. It's sanitary
if you keep the gloves CLEAN, it's safer and it will even get you used to the
experience. Then when you're clean and you know that you're clean you can even
use your bare fingers (clean them!) to experience what that feels like. Make
sure your nails are short or not sharp or jagged, and if you decide not to cut
your nails you will always be able to have a good control of what part of your
finger you're using - and you should be using the front of your finger not the
VERY VERY tip. Generally speaking, it's not the "in and out" motion
that does the trick, it's a rubbing around. I, of course, do not have a vagina,
but I can't imagine that during female masturbation, you don't use your hand as
a jackhammer. Be gentle. It's skin for god's sake. And it's sex, rough or not,
there's a conscious, healthy limit to the quick and the hard.
And as for soaps - just no. I did once use
Summer's Eve for an extra clean feel, but I stopped eventually and really it
never made any more of a difference. IF you decide to use this, and I only
recommend anything that's like Summer's Eve (hypoallergenic and all that
stuff), be spare and use small amounts. Still the soap is not an imperative
practice, but it does give a feeling of being cleaner.
Now for the feeling of water in your anus -
it's a bit unpleasant. Your rectum and colon will harden and push out. Normally
they push up against something, but when they push against themselves they
create a very strong sensation inside you. It's bearable, but definitely not a
good preview to anal intercourse. If you find that you can make it through
that, then good for you. If you feel this is too much of hassle, it is very
understandable. There are plenty of other ways to engage in other sexy taboos,
and it's fine if anal is not your thing.
Afterward I always rub some Vaseline OUTSIDE
of the anus, just a bit. Also keeps from any sweat that might build up. Skin is
skin, anywhere you go, if you clean too long before the action goes down you
might not smell great. It's nice to help this out. Even some creams will be
nice, but nothing that has alcohol as it will dry you up. I did however once
use Chanel No. 5 (Mademoiselle herself would turn in her grave) and it had a
strangely arousing scent for my boyfriend.
And another tip in response to the person who
said to starve yourself or the mentioning of only milk products: really? I mean
I generally make sure I don't eat much before having sex - anal or not. It's
just not a pleasant feeling to be all bloated from eating and then start
thrashing around with your man - you know, if you're into that - so I agree,
don't eat before it, but don't starve yourself. I have had hours worth of sex
with meals that have been down to almost 2 hours apart once I feel that I can
move normally again.
Don't do anything wilder than a decent
cleaning, if you're going to do it at all. No need to starve yourself.
Also it helps that if you are cleaning with a
douche or something alike, you empty out what you can at first. Once you see
the coast is clear wait. Stand up, walk around if you must and wait till some
of it keeps moving down. It's a process. Look up a picture of the colon and
you'll understand.
I always do this before I shower, and with the
rest of my shower activities it takes me up to an hour but it has taken me a
little under 45 minutes before, with successfully clean sex following. It also
really encourages bowel movements so digestion is faster. It's always good to
go to the bathroom as many times as you eat (if you eat three meals a day, you
s**t three meals a day) that way you have as little toxic residue leftover
inside you. It's generally healthy, so there are benefits to this other than an
other worldly orgasms. And so we segue into it.
Gloves for
Anal Hygiene and Quick Clean Up
Wearing a
latex, vinyl or nitrile glove is a simple way to keep everything clean and easy
to clean up. Vinyl or nitrile glove are great for anal stimulation. They feel
smooth and soft on sensitive skin, and when you are finished the gloves can be
stripped and disposed of easily. Make sure you take the time to find gloves to
fit the person giving the massage- the touch will feel much better when the
gloves fit taut against the skin. Latex is a developed allergy, degrades over
time and can cause uncomfortable reactions in the sensitive tissues of the
anus. Vinyl and nitrile are only a few pennies more per glove, and offer better
protection.
An Internal
Rinse : Enemas and Anal Hygiene
If you would
like to rinse internally, you have a few easy options. If you are trying an
internal rinse, do so at least fifteen minutes before you engage in anal play. A
disposable bulb enema is quick and easy. Fill the bulb with plain warm water,
gently insert the nozzle into your anus and squeeze the bulb, immediately
allowing the water to rinse out. Repeat several times, or until the water runs
clear. Never use hot or cold water- aim for wrist-temperature warm. Make sure
you release all water – linger for a few minutes and completely relax to make
sure everything is out of your system. Never use a vinegar solution, soap
or anything other than plain water. Larger enema bags are not required for anal
hygiene, and may cause discomfort. If you are interested in receiving a full
colonic enema, it is recommended that you see a professional or do additional
research before trying it at home. If you ever feel cramps or discomfort, stop
your enema immediately and allow the water to pass. 2 tablespoons of salt is alot IF you consume it
through out the day. However when taken in one hit with the one litre of water
it comes out ur arse in about half an hr with all the shit up there! Your body
wont absorb the salt. This is from the lemon detox diet so it's not some unsafe
untested backyard remedy. IT"S SAFE!!!
QUESTION
I am wondering what the best way to clean myself out before anal sex is. I know
it's best to be empty inside before sex but I’m afraid that there could be
something still in there that could make a mess.
ANSWER
Most resources suggest running cool water in your butt prior to sex to
help you empty out and feel cleaner. There are attachments that can be placed
on the shower that run a hose to a tube that slides into you. Once you are full
of the water, you can release it into the toilet. You can also use an enema bag
easily found in most drug stores. Try to avoid using douche products. The
chemicals in them aren't helpful to the cleaning out process for sex and can
actually encourage you to have a bowel movement sooner. In some cases, they can
weaken your anal membranes, making you more susceptible to certain STDs.
Cleaning out
your rectum for simple hygeine or in preparation for sex can be done in less
than 5 minutes. You should defecate first and then clean out, whenever
possible. You can go to the drug store and buy a simple Fleet for under $2 and
keep the plastic bottle for later use. The contents of the Fleet contains
phosphorous which you may use or dispel in the sink for tepid water. Fill the
sink with water and then fill the plastic bottle. You may notice that the tip
of the Fleet is lubricated for easy insertion. Now, take the filled, plastic
bottle, sit on the toilet with legs spread, insert the tip in the rectum, hold
the tip with the sphincter muscles, and squeeze the bottle until most of the
water over 2/3 of the contents is in the rectum. Hold the water in and wait at
least 15 seconds then slowly dispel the water with a gentle push. Look at the
toilet water to see if it is clear. Repeating the process is necessary until
the toilet bowl water is nice and clear. Small drips may occur and confidence
builds when you know your rectum is nice and clean. You may want to have an
attachment to the shower nozzle, but this may not preserve privacy. Your
roommate may question it or anyone visiting you needing to use the toilet may
know you're into guys. This above procedure is general, and if your anus is
loose to begin with, you may need to adjust your procedure as necessary. Your
gentle partner may appreciate your rectum to be "well lubed" but you
know it's only water lining the walls of your rectum, and it's nice and warm and clean, friendly to your guy's masculine
penis. No lube in the rectum is necessary. If you want to use a lubricant for
deep penetrating play, do not use Vaseline, though you may not feel it,
Vaseline is known to be an irritant. If you use a lubricant within the rectum,
especially if it is not water-based like Crisco, be sure to clean out well,
after play -- very important. An attachment to the shower nozzel may be
necessary to rinse out well. You may want to try Vitamin E with Aloe in some
sort of oil instead of Crisco. Good luck, be happy, be safe, always!
